Bluebook ..... Advice needed please.?

Hi me and my bf have some trust issues. He has lied to me in the past about silly little things but it has made me very insecure. I looked on his phone the other day and saw he had made a call to bluebook which i didnt know he had. Obviously i want to confront him about it but dont know much about bluebook. Will his text messages go to his bluebook INSTEAD of his phone or will they go to his PHONE as well as his bluebook. I really wanna get online and find out what hes up to but dont know his username and password. I know im wrong and i shouldnt be in a relationship with no trust blah blah but im trying to build up the trust and these little things keep cropping up and i need to know hes not cheating on me!





Thanks.|||Shouldn't you be in the singles category?|||you are No Way trying to build up trust!





if you want to keep the moral high ground


end this relationship





or he will find out


and end it for you





sheeeeeeeeeeesh


back off lady!|||Stop snooping. You're sneaking around and looking through his phone. That proves that you don't trust him, not that you're trying to build trust. Building trust would be to actually trust him. Let go of your insecurities and believe that he cares for you enough that he wouldn't hurt you. If that is not something you can do with him, you shouldn't be with him. That's it. It's honestly that simple. If you feel the need to check up on him constantly and search through his personal items, your relationship is doomed because you refuse to allow trust to develop. Trust isn't knowing for a fact with physical proof that he won't cheat. Trust is knowing in your heart that despite what anyone may say or do, he loves you and you don't have to worry. So either choose to trust or don't waste time with him. And remember that the more you snoop and invade his privacy, the less likely it will be that he will ever trust you and more likely it will be that he will hide more from you.|||Whats bluebook - and how does this relate to marriage and divorce?|||Dito with the Unicorn!